Re: How many of you believe being short guarantees infidelity from your partner?
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I don't think so. "Guarantee" is a strong word.
If she's a cheater, she's going to cheat, no matter what.
When I worked in a clothing store during the summer when I was in college, shamefully, a co-worker was cheating on her boyfriend with me.
Her boyfriend was 6'2, mid-level career, but an overall boring, square, 9-5'er. Not that there's anything wrong with that. He was also in his late 30s.
At the time, I was 21, in excellent shape (I'm still in good shape now) and was more of an adventurer.
This went on for months until I decided to bail. She was never going to leave him because he was well-off. I caught feelings, but it was mostly based on lust. I was young and sprung.
It wasn't the last time I had offers from a woman who was committed either.
I also think that you need to know what kind of woman you're dealing with. If she is all about tall men and is "all of a sudden into shorter men", or "gives you a chance", then that is a major red flag.